OK Duc, how does this work? - Machine Underground -Tractor & Commercial Equipment Discussion Forum

Mickey · 03-20-2008, 12:03 AM

Received your email this AM and see the notification about requesting to be added to friends list but what do I do? I clicked on the save changes and check mark on accepting the request.

I don't see any changes and "notifications" remain on the logged in block. What am I not doing right?

**Ducati996** · 03-20-2008, 07:54 AM

Will try again, should have worked after you accepted worked with others. For a second I thought you didnt want to be my friend

Mickey · 03-20-2008, 05:07 PM

Tried again today. Still see notification shown in the upper right corner. When I click on it I no longer see your request and also don't see you in the friends list.

Wonder if this could be an issue due to which browser one uses? May fire up FireFox and see if I see any differences.

Dougster · 03-20-2008, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Mickey

Tried again today. Still see notification shown in the upper right corner. When I click on it I no longer see your request and also don't see you in the friends list.

Wonder if this could be an issue due to which browser one uses? May fire up FireFox and see if I see any differences.

I had the same issue Mickey. Didn't see any way to accept a friend request. Eventually, I just clicked on the persons avatar in the box and Presto! I think that worked. [Either that or I hit some other thing/key by mistake 'cause the person was added!

]

Dougster

**Ducati996** · 03-20-2008, 06:05 PM

Different ways to handle this - using your User CP, you can create friends and a social group networking or join them. As Doug mentioned just looking up the members profile, and then requesting "befriend" should do it as well. I already have a few friends, I swear

Created a John Deere social group as well - for anyone who cares to join it, and see where it goes from there

Its kind of whats used on Myspace and similar.

SkunkWerX · 03-20-2008, 07:13 PM

I have no friends.

**PaulChristenson** · 03-20-2008, 11:50 PM

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Originally Posted by SkunkWerX

I have no friends.

I forget where I read this, but a Psychologist stated one can emotionally deal with a maximum of FIVE FRIENDS...everyone else is an acquaintance...BUT don't tell the acquaintances they are NOT FRIENDS...

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Mark / Ohio · 03-21-2008, 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by SkunkWerX

I have no friends.

Me neither. Another confirmation I'm still destined to be a life long loner.

**Ducati996** · 03-21-2008, 08:23 AM

Just look at the profile of those you want top join up with and look for the "briefriend link"

If you guys want me to be your friends, I will do it for a price and temporary so nobbody finds out -

<j/K> of course, you can look up my profile and send me the request - keep in mind both parties have to agree in a way

You can also create a social group -i.e Orange vs Green or anything else and setup a networking circle

Mickey · 03-21-2008, 02:48 PM

Well. it looks like I got this thing behind me. Tried out the method Duc mentioned in post #5. I must be awful dense because none of this was clear to me.

I ended up clicking on Duc's AVITAR, then clicked on FRIENDS and finally saw some text over to the right saying BEFRIEND. I'm sure there is another way and possibly easier but I couldn't find it.